I'm having moments when I just want to march up to him and tell him to get out, that I've had more than enough. If I can hang on to this feeling for an entire 48 hours, does that mean I should do it?
I guess you could re-evaluate after 48 hours, decide if that's how you really feel. Everything I've read has said to not push him out the door, but allow him to decide when/if to leave. Which puts you in more limbo, which really sucks (I know!). Hugs...