Wow. Yes, that's more than reasonable I would think. We're not there yet either.... Anyway, it's not like you want to grope and slobber on her 10 times a week.
And true, we have been through a lot together. I believe I shared details of DTD and my nightie prancing once upon a time.
I wonder...now, mind you, I'm only talking from my experience so this may or may not be true. Maybe your W feels inhibited, like she doesn't feel sexy or able to please YOU. I'm not saying that's true, but women sometimes buy into the characters in movies and stuff that the men are all ga-ga over. The perfect bodies, the wanton-ness, almost a dominant role. I think what women may not understand is that you guys don't much notice the extra flab and are just happy to, you know, be doing it with an enthusiastic partner that you care about.
Like I said, that may or may not be true. You know your W. Just thinking...
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!