Ok, now I understand. Yeah, is that pursuing or not? Maybe he could do that in a maybe more subtle (maybe too subtle?) way of changing his status to Married from single? Or something like that? I would be careful not to be flirting or anything like that, though. I don't think that will help in the long-term. But I do think Scott, you should try to work on GALing to improve yourself, not just doing/posting things to get her interest back. I know in the beginning I did a lot of GALing and 180s and my main focus was to get my H back, but I think it is better when your focus is on you instead of just trying to get the WAS back. I think that's a process though and you get better at that as time goes on. Karen
