Is it "pursuing" if the other person doesn't know that you know that they're getting the message?
Puppy
If she knows, then it's pursuing in my book, but I'm not sure about your question. My guess would be that it's not pursuing in that case, but isn't part of pursuing also your intention/motivations also? I mean shouldn't Scott be GALing and doing whatever to improve himself rather than try to make his W jealous or whatever? But that is interesting; would there be a way to use that info in a positive way, not just to make her jealous? Is that what you're thinking? Karen
Yes. I'm thinking "What if he posts something POSITIVE on his personal page, about how much he misses her or whatever?"