"Said i would help him with the pool, whatever he needed from me, having a pool company come out and assess the problem, or renting the bulldozer...whatever you need let me know"
OK.. that sounds good.
"text it an hour ago...so far no response...so guess it will be a waiting game..."
How long did it take you to respond? Give this 24 hours.. then ask again. He brought it up.. there was some drama.. still he brought it up.
"I'm still worried he meant the things he said last week. Wanting to talk about the D, it's time to go forward, "we" are over....He knows where my weak spots are...dang it...and knows how to kick me while i'm down....dang it....he sucks!!! (sarcasm noted there!)I feel like a dog that has been beat so much, I cower around him....I hate that feeling."
You have to understand this is a possibility. Let him lead on this. We don't want to push him to the point he acts on it.. but he may be ready. Thats a question I can't answer.. only he can. The simple fact remains.. your not getting any more results waiting on him to come to you. I am being really cautious here.. it is your life.. I am not trying to lead you astray.
"I'm still scared he was serious about having a discussion with me about dividing assets, finances etc. to prepare for D...the thought of that makes me ill."
I understand.
"hope you had a good day at work"
I am still working.. yes while I am posting here.
Long day. It happens.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
