I would still be a sobbing, wallowing, miserable wreck if it weren't for you. Even though I know she is telling him she loves him, and texting and calling him, and spending time with him, I feel like I can make it out of this. Could I even trust her if she came back ? that's a tough one. She's handled some low blows. but this morning she made EVERY attempt to apologize for acting childish and she wants to try "as hard as" she can to be my friend and be pleasant. Thanks for everything guys. It's only been a month and a half, seems like a nightmare, i've been disillusioned, but I'll make it. always in the back of my mind, I want her back so much though. can't backslide. I initiated a hug tonite when she picked our son up, and she returned it. tomorrow we go to settle with a mediator. wish me luck. I'll be on here later though for any advice in the mean time. thanks.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF