MLC is a baffling event Our spouses are very confused and confusing they change their minds alot never seem to get anywhere..make decisions and never follow through spend alot of money lie all the time very secretive very difficult to figure out very moody depressed withdrwn non communicative we all get the speech basically same one they all want to find themselves it is a long process i am here almost 18 months and my H has barely moved take care of you and I agree with IMp better to talk to C than friends Most friends will tell us to move on as they dont undwerstand how long this takes there are many resourses here read all you can dont pursue her peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow