Does a WAW want you to fight for them?

[cz946]

She invited me to dinner tonight. I have been practicing the LRT for the last 3 weeks. I don't call, TXT, or email. So about a week went by with no communication. After a week, I started getting a txt or an email once or twice a day. Usually about something with daughter or the house. I would answer her question, but kept it short and to the point. Lately she has been calling me, again about once a day. The first few calls were like the emails, something about our daughter, etc..

Then last Thurdasy morning she called and talked to me for 20 mins venting about one of her ungrateful friends and work. I listened and very supportive. So today she called me to ask if I would a switch a day with my daughter with her day. I said yes, kept it brief and hung up.

Then to my surprise 2 hours later she sent me an email asking me if I wanted to eat dinner together tonight. Of course she referenced our daughter in the request.

Her email said."Do you think we should take daughter to dinner, or eat dinner with her? I could cook something or we could meet somewhere. I’m worried she might need some time with both of us.


I said yes, so we went to dinner tonight. The conversation was good. We talked about her work mostly. We didn't talk about our relationship at all. However she did tell me, she just finished the book, 5 languages of love, and is reading another called crazy life or something.

After dinner she was taking my daughter to the park. I wanted to go with them so bad, but she never ask, and I was not going to ask.

So I think the LRT is working, but I have a few questions.
1.) Was I right in going to dinner?
2.) Is it good that she read the five languages of love? and that she told me about it?