Hopeful, this place is full of those freaks. Most of us feel the same way, so dont worry about that. I actually think that I love my H more now than I did before. Probably because of all the work Ive done on myself to make myself a better W, and a more complete person. As far as what to do when you miss them, Sign up for motorcycle lessons!! Dont ignore your emotions, I dont think that that will help, but try to find things you can do to help you not be inconsolable, find something new & fullfilling to occupy your time. Thats what I do.
After everything they do, its hard to justify feeling this way, but I dont even try to explain it. Im just doing the right thing by fighting for my marriage. I made vows and I meant them, thats all that matters.
Last edited by bluerain; 07/15/0812:50 AM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
Dont ignore your emotions, I dont think that that will help, but try to find things you can do to help you not be inconsolable, find something new & fullfilling to occupy your time. Thats what I do.