cindy, I told him that I wouldnt sign the papers while hes having an A, that a marriage is too important to decide to end while hes obviously not thinking clearly. He said that it wasnt an affair, it was a relationship. I told him that he could call it whatever he wanted, but it didnt change the fact that he is married and decided to start seeing someone before he even told me he wasnt happy. Thats called an extra marital affair dear. Im pretty sure that I wasnt being validating, but its so frustrating, Im not really clear on when to validate and when not to anyway. I guess I can validate his feelings, but... I dont know.

I hadnt thought that she might be signing into his account. But I guess that could be. Shes his #1 friend, and my pic is right next to her as his #2 WTF?? Too wierd! Its nice to not go look, your heart doesnt pound as you are waiting for his page to load, you wont go look at all of his pics to see if shes put any new comments on, you just have to make the decision and stop doing it. I slip up sometimes, but I really have (mostly) stopped looking.

Motorcycle class went GREAT!! It was exciting, and kinda scary, I had only been on a motorcycle once before this, and it was just as passenger. So, this is quite an adventure. And the clothes are sexy!

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...