lovely, thanks for the warning. I am trying to keep the peace. Luckily I don't have a 'specific' OW to contend with right now, there is no one 'hurrying' H along. I feel for you.

Gypsy, one of my closest friends constantly berates me for treating H so well, can't believe I do what I do for him, etc. I just let her talk and say that I am doing what I feel is right. My other close friend (the one that is going through this) totally understands.

And yes, Gypsy, my H wants me in SO many ways, just not as his wife anymore.

Sue and g, thanks for stopping by. Sue, I hit your thread...

Journaling:

Spent the morning at the park with my neighbor and his kids. Spur of the moment invitation, and it was nice. Then, as promised, I took the ladies to get a 'pedicure'. They always get SO mad when I come home with pretty toes, so I took them today. They loved it. \:\) My future divas.

H asked me to do something again this week. We just had dinner and drinks last Thursday and he wants to do something again this week. I asked SallyM today "Am I dating my husband and don't realize it?" lol She told me to ask him, but I told her he would say no. I think he is doing it to keep the peace. Its fine, I'll go. I have fun. I have no expectations, other than to have a few drinks and yummy dinner.