I started this thread hoping to find some wisdom. The other one got to long, I will link to it when I figure out how.
Quick overall:
I moved out a couple months ago for many reasons W and I started MC, started dating again Few weeks later W said she wanted a D- ILYNIL ect Stated this during MC and even the C was stunned. Couple of weeks ago W thanked me for not given up on her Last Sunday said she wanted LS, she needed to find herself ect. Friday after my IC she asked if we talked about her being stupid the other night, while working around the house she turned up the radio and sang along with a song about a woman who was happy her man did not give up on her even when she had given up on him and put him through a hard time. Still on good speaking terms and do some stuff together, both in IC Have heard "why do you have be so nice and why can't you just be mean"
Last night I went over to pick up some clothes and figure out some bills. I could tell she was in a mood when I was there. I decided to head out and give her space. I asked if she was ok and she asked if I thought any more about what we talked about last week. W said she did not want to give me false hope. I sat back down and she said we could talk later this week. I told her that would be fine and left.
I talked with a mutual friend today and they wondered if it is some sort of MLC. The few people that I have talked to are dumbfounded by the way she is acting. The C said that she is running on emotions and depending on what they are is what she says to me.
She just turned 37 and both of the kids are hers, D16 and D11. The oldest will be a junior and the younger starts middle school this year.
So I am just wondering if I am in the right spot. She has me totally baffled.
Last edited by yenko69; 07/14/0811:55 PM.
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