At THIS point in time - bearing in mind the "affair" AND the possibility of my wife carrying a "child" - what say you Godly & WISE DB'ers about writing this letter to my wife -----> as suggested by one of my kind lady friends on this site
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I think at some point in time, if it were me, I would write her a note (although I think another form of communication- not sure what-would be better since notes/emails is what you've been doing all this time) and tell her something like this.
Wife, I do not want to cause you distress and pain, that has not been my goal. My goal has been to save my marriage. I did not make a vow to you knowing that I would break it 12 years later. I made that vow to my Lord and to break that vow is against every single cell in my body. I am praying for God's wisdom because I do not want this conflict between us.
I hate it.
I pray that someday you will no longer loathe me and that you will understand what it is that I am standing for.
I am truly sorry for the pain that I have caused you.
