I guess I could have made it easier by linking the previous thread into my current one. But, your eyes did not deceive you about my interactions w/ my darling. I have only been without sex for a week now. That is probably about our average. And maybe it won't change much even post-divorce. That has never been a problem in our M. If we could just figure out the other stuff. She called again today to check and see if our IRS check had arrived yet.