Smartcookie, I saw your last thread locked and i panicked! really. The board monitors need to find a way to put a forward link to your new threads. So many of us look forward to your posts. amazing how much we get from you and want to be your husband (in your husbands position, i mean, hehe)
and now its page 3 and thats just people catching up with you and this new thread.
13 months of hard work? I'm heading into month 3 and feel so far from where i want to be. mentioned on Somberbrows thread i got the "I need to move out" talk. I just dread those talks but knew she needed to say it. I'm hoping and praying she just needed to say it, but wont act on it.
thanks again for being you. And please tell your husband how jealous we all are of him.
Ken, I'll try to put a forward link on my last post, I normally do, just spaced it this time.
As far as wanting to be in my husbands position....if you knew everything he went through...you might reconsider.
Month 3 is hard, H & I were both acting like a couple of 4 year olds at month 3. I feel for you.
I've mentioned that a few guys here are envious of him. I've also told him that a few gals (whose husbands walked away & aren't looking back) are very happy for me.
take care of you
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
