It sounds as if you have answered your own question. She is getting everything she wants or pretty much everything she wants. I would tell her to do the no contact agreement with other man and if she refuses or slips and fails to tell you then you will be filing and the girls will be staying with you. They need a good example.(Do NOT give in on this).

You need to be prepared for the worse and not to waiver even the least in the consequences of her actions. Hon, you need to take control of this situation.

kat


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