Just wanted to give you some support. Get the money together (if you can) and file yourself. You don't need him to start it up. Why should HE live how he wants? Protect yourself and your family. Its up to you. Don't be scared to do it, you can do it. I make all the appts for our atty, do all the paperwork, do everything. Do I want a D? Heck, no. I am the petitioner even!!But I am not living like this anymore. Might be anti-DB to not stall, but I am working on me now.