Sunny,
Whenever I find myself adrift, the best way to get back on course is to get back to basics...in this case, What is your goal?

I do think that setting boundaries and sticking to them when tested is critical to regaining respect from your H. Just make sure that they are ones that you will really stick to...in otherwords that they make sense!

Lot's of luck, SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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