It doesn't really matter if you think I am right or not. The point is when will YOU feel it's right. Trying to force yourself to go into the next stage, will only leave you some difficult to handle loose ends inside. Decide what you need, decide if he is able to give it or even better, if he is willing to give it to you, and see where that leads you. Trying to feel "you are done" will not work. I said it before, take it easy. If you feel stuck experiment with a new approach. You only know what that could be. Stay strong, I love you K