Hey, there is good stuff here too, Tom! I remember the first time I took out the woman who became my W. After a nice evening at a Greek restaurant was over I asked her if she'd like to catch a movie the next week (oops, I was being too available!), she said "sure, just call me" so I did, and guess what, she never returned my call. So after a few months of her avoiding me at work (hmm there seems to be a life long pattern here) I called her and said "I realize that there is some tension between you and I and I would like to get together and see if we can deal with it like adults" and she went for it, after that we started dating and ended up married. Oh yeah, I guess that really isn't the good stuff, is it! Just trying to stay positive here.
