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ok here we go today...
Today Wife and I did our "dialogue" question from last night. (We both agreed to wait until today because we were so tired that means we will have two today) The question that we had to state our feeling on was "how do we feel about Dialoguing" Well be both did not use the "script" like we should have and just kind of wrote letters to each other Anyway I can't really go into too much detail about what our feelings were but Wife said that she agreed with me when I said on Sunday that everyone should go to this. She said it should be required before you get married. She told me she can not say what our out come will be but she is going to give 100% to this. She also agreed that she wishes we would have gone to this years ago. (She wrote more but..... My letter stated that I think that this dialoguing is great. And I can not thank her enough for going with me this weekend. I said we both have issues that we need to work on. And I want to put one of my issues to rest tonight. I told her it is going to be really hard for me. Little things pop up like colors, events, words that bring back memories to me. And I told her to forgive me if I slip but for lack of better words ' I FORGIVE YOU. I told her I am giving her my heart. I am making myself vulnerable to hurt. I told her my heart was broken into a million pieces and the glue I used to mend it has not dried yet so. Please handle it carefully.
After we write our letters we hand our books to each other and face each other and read what the other wrote. We read it twice once for the mind and once for the heart. Then we ask about what each of us wrote. Wife wrote something about she did not expect the presenting couples to open up to us. To display the hurt they still felt years after forgiving each other. But they were living for today. When it came time for Wife to ask me about my letter...............she asked." Can you really forgive me for what I did?" We both got teary eyed and I told her "I love you so much. I do forgive you" I told her I could never forget. But I do forgive...
This is the FIRST time Wife acknowledged that she did something wrong....... We still have a long way to go... one step at a time
Love ya Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
