Yes Beth I do agree, but mine are not college kids now. I just leave all the mess so I can keep busy after they leave gives me things to do. I would much rather play with my g/son than worry about a tidy house. My main problem is space. I had to downsize considerably and you are constantly all together. I do go visit them as well and yes there homes are minimalist and spotless. I guess I still have too much clutter. Maybe a job for the summer holls.
