I am not D'd, my H and I are still married, but I was married before for a long time. My XH and I did everything we were supposed to in terms of C, IC, MC, all of the above, and in the end, we both realized it was better that we split. I care about him, but don't love him, and that feeling is mutual. But I think it is a human emotion to be a little envious when your X is having a great time and you feel like something the cat dragged in!!! I keep remembering that whenever I see my H, that it is the positive that draws them back...
I don't think it is arrogant at all, its self confidence. I consider myself an attractive woman who has a lot to offer as well, and although I don't want to lose my H, I also know that I would eventually heal and find someone. I just don't think I will ever marry again!!!
Thanks for that. I don't really know what to say other than what i have update so far. Funny thing this morning, i walked into "w's" room and she was in the bathroom getting ready for work. Normally she closes the door, this morning she didn't , i walked in to ask her a question, and there she was naked in all her glory! I just said'' oops sorry i didn't know" funny thing is she didn't run to close the door, she just laughed.. weird stuff
