I am not D'd, my H and I are still married, but I was married before for a long time. My XH and I did everything we were supposed to in terms of C, IC, MC, all of the above, and in the end, we both realized it was better that we split. I care about him, but don't love him, and that feeling is mutual. But I think it is a human emotion to be a little envious when your X is having a great time and you feel like something the cat dragged in!!! I keep remembering that whenever I see my H, that it is the positive that draws them back...

I don't think it is arrogant at all, its self confidence. I consider myself an attractive woman who has a lot to offer as well, and although I don't want to lose my H, I also know that I would eventually heal and find someone. I just don't think I will ever marry again!!!

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..