Just because the spouse walks away does not mean they don't still care. Its easier when you are on the outside looking in. But when the spouse still pays attention, even in small ways, that means they do still care. I tell you, I would not want to get back with my XH. But I can't help feeling a twinge of jealousy when he is dating someone. Don't ask me why. It just is.
I do not want to sound arrogant, rather i am very self-confident. I am a good looking guy with Alot to offer.. and I know if this is truly over, i will be able to offer alot to the next woman i meet. This being said DB and DR ultimately will have helped me overcome alot of obstacles to make myself happy with myself. Does that make sense?
Lola, Are you D'd now? I think it would make me a little jealous of W if she dated. I think she will be even more so if I did. She sure makes efforts to find out what I am doing..
Nearly 2 months into this mess.. i have done a 180 on myself BIGtime..and I am proud of that
I also do not think W found this site, she might go looking into this site when i am away for a week however.. she does know about 390 i spent on coach, and she said" why would you pay for something where someone will tell you what YOu want to hear"
