WAW is full steam ahead

[Neilh23]

"She has only one thing on her mind primarily, and that is her happiness.....nobody else.....even her kids. It hurts to see them that way and I think men mentally chose to turn a blind eye to it b/c it does hurt them so much to see their W's act that coldly toward their own children that once they were so dedicated to. "

Sandi, could you explain that in more detail please? I'd like insight, because my W is doing some of the same things, but not all. The big thing is the happiness....and worrying about her own. and not seeing how its affecting our kids. How can a LBH address that without getting angry and driving her further away? Can we even do that?