bluerain~ I know how you feel about the myspace thing. I am going through almost like what you are. My H just changed his status from married to in a relationship and has her at number one. Its hard looking at his page and seeing pics of the two of them. Ive tried to not look but i cant stop. JWS told me in my thread that by looking at his page i am asking to be hurt and he is right. I cant stop him from doing what he is doing so i need to just take it for what it is. Also you dont know if it was him that changed it or not, could she have possibly signed into his account? That has gone through my mind that my husbands OW is the one changing stuff on his page.

Continue to pray and work on yourself. looking at your timeline it basically is the same as mine almost..

my H told me of his affair 4/08 he started staying with her the end of april beginning of may.. may 9th he texted me and said he wanted a divorce while i was at work. He said we should get a dissolution and that he has the papers i just need to sign them, well i have yet to see them.