HELP - Wife Is Focused On Divorce For OM

[Scott123]

No I'm not being vindictive, please re-read what I posted. I had
a feeling it would get her attention and get her to start
perusing me a bit. The flirting is innocent and not anywhere
near emotional abuse. It's more of me just posting about
what I'm doing, talking to friends etc. Some of which happen
to be female. She has a real problem with me talking to women
and always has. that's just the way she is, she is a very jealous
type of person.

I did get an email from her today about the conflict letter for
the attorney:

--
I really need you to write that letter for me. All it has to say
is that It is ok to represent me, and you signature. I would
like to get all of this done asap. You can get it notarized or
I can.

Thanks
--

I love her more than anything in this world. Right now
she is watching me because of things I have posted online.
Before she was not really interested in what I was doing
and she was starting to be real distant. At least now I am
on her mind. I am very careful about what I post and I'm
making sure there is nothing posted that would be perceived as
me having any sexual or even emotional relationships.

As for the divorce that she filed. It is no fault and it was
one of those online services. You don't even have contact
with the attorney or need to show up in court. Right now
it is blocked because of a conflict of interest and if I don't
write that letter she will have to go to another attorney.
Basically I can drag my feet for a while her but she will
get furious. Not sure if that is a backslide or not.

I'm just not sure what to do now. Should I keep posting online
since that is really the only way she sees what i am doing. I
will be going to work on our house soon, but in the past she
has simply left the room, went out or ignored me while I
was there so I expect her to do the same if I work on
the house now.

I'm really confused now and need a good plan to follow. I just
wish the OM was not in the picture because I know that is what
is really pushing her for divorce now.

Puppy, this is 100% tactical, I have no intention of being
vindictive or "getting back at her" or anything like that. I
love her unconditionally and can get past the OM without having
resentment or holding anything against her.

I just want my baby back regardless of what she has done.

- Scott