Hey... Another tidbit from my sister..... She asked, "Why do you have all of those pictures on the internet. Kim could see them." I said, "I do not care if she sees them." My sis said, "Seeing those pictures may hurt her." I said, "It was HER choice to leave. If she feels hurt, SHE needs to deal with the consequences of her actions." My sis said, "I think the thing which will hurt her the most is her knowing you are happy without her..." THAT IS SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to keep this in mind...
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I should clarify this.... When all of this started, I thought the most important thing would be to finish yet another degree, increase my hourly rate, buy an even bigger house overlooking exW's new neighborhood and build a software empire...... The thing is LOTS of people have $$$, cars, houses and toys.... Many are unhappy.....
What people REALLY admire is happy people..... It has no bearing on the $$$$$$ or stuff...... Happiness is where it is at.... It reminds me of the movie "Family Man"......... In his "alternate" life Nicholas Cage is trying to convince his wife people will admire their lives if they have lots of $$$$$$$$$$.... She tells him they ALREADY admire them because they are happy.... A powerful statement...
I believe happiness is a decision..... I believe the enemy wants to cloud our minds with fear and doubts.... We need to rebuke him and embrace the joy God has for us...
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
and build a software empire...... The thing is LOTS of people have $$$, cars, houses and toys.... Many are unhappy.....