Thanks again OT for your words of wisdom, dont' know why I was so shocked, that wasn't the first nor the last lie he told while we were piecing, and bringing it up will only cause grief and friction which will just hurt the kids, and they dont' need see any of that. Yes, the R is over, I was thinking of how I'd sound bringing it up, as a hurt W to his H, but... he's not my H anymore and i ceased to be his W long long ago. Yes, he WAS a huge risk, my old MC told me so when after I told him "this" time he seemed repentant (MC):"but, he's said this before and nothing has changed". Well, at least I got a kick of knowing that all along the much anticipated trip he was in knots about me finding out (I found out the A the week before he left), his dream trip was not what it was meant to be, and he almost didn't go.
OK, enough cyber space wasted on that subject. It is ZUMBA day!! boy, I love it when the instructor puts on lambada, I feel so energized!! I need to burn some calories too after yesterday's buffet trip, and today my cousins are taking me out for lunch, and tomorrow a coworker..lol, so much for loosing weight! I need to loose those pounds for my beach trip on August, I bought a skanky monokini from V's Secret and I better look good on it
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
