Regarding your talk w/him, is there a reason you left off that H was having an affair? Just curious, although I think he's still unaware that you know.
I think it was a post by Puppy Dog Tails that advocates telling the kids (age appropriate o/c). I'll have to find it & read it again.
It took me many years to be comfortable in my own skin....You sound like you're doing really well.
