Yeah.. still sounds like my mom.. who was also notorious for adding to the front or back of the prior said comment
"quit doing it half-assed"

the problem this created for me.. was I let her define what half-assed was. I thought I was doing my best, she got to decide otherwise. That was probably the start of me letting others define me. I never was taught to say.. 'that was my best effort' and have it be ok. If it didn't meet her expecations... it was 1/2 assed.

But yes.. Logically, I totally get what you're saying \:\) emotionally.. I'm working on it!

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Last edited by Bridgestone; 07/14/08 07:42 PM.
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