Originally Posted By: one_light
Also NMD…

You are right. I just can’t see that now. I’m working hard to stop making negative predictions about the future. I simply don’t know. There is simply no way to know what the future holds. God has something in store for me… of that I’m sure. What? That has not been revealed to me. I think maybe I need to show a little more faith for a little more longer.

All manner of things are possible. There could, like you, be someone in my future that will be not only so much better for me, but will benefit from the hard lessons I am learning now. I just don’t know. I need to embrace that instead of fearing it.

Again, your sitch and interest inspires hope. Thanks.


one_light,

Do NOT make negative predictions about the future.... You are creating YOUR future....

To be honest, I was sitting at Chick-fil-A eating my lunch today.... Thinking... Two years ago, could I EVER have dreamed I would be where I am today? NO WAY! My sister, who is a prof at Oral Roberts University, said, "God has a way of changing our lives in ways we never thought possible." That is so true!

I NEVER would have dreamed I would not me married to Kim....
I am not.........

I NEVER would have dreamed I would be married to someone other than Kim....
Well, I am......

I NEVER would have dreamed I would be pondering having children at my age (42)....
I am.....

Let me "predict" the future...... You will get over this terrible obstacle..... You find yourself....... You will find a woman who truly loves and values you....

Hey... Another tidbit from my sister..... She asked, "Why do you have all of those pictures on the internet. Kim could see them." I said, "I do not care if she sees them." My sis said, "Seeing those pictures may hurt her." I said, "It was HER choice to leave. If she feels hurt, SHE needs to deal with the consequences of her actions." My sis said, "I think the thing which will hurt her the most is her knowing you are happy without her..." THAT IS SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to keep this in mind...

Take Care,

NMD



Last edited by No_More_Dodo; 07/14/08 07:35 PM.
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