If this is the case, don't you think H4H should simply call her bluff, and insist upon a no-contact letter and a 100% no-contact/transparency system? If she refuses, then he'll know she is either lying or stalling and intending to cake-eat, and he'll have his answer.
IF she is going to stop seeing OM, she ain't doing it for me. She would do it because of the guilt. Because she knows that it was wrong to begin with. Hopefully her Christian belief lets her realize. This is what I feel from her.
But you know cheaters. Fogged out and saying what they want people to hear and knowing that they have no intention of ending things. Besides, HE is the one she loves right now.
That's my take on it.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
