Peacetoday that is a wonderful username. Keep peace within yourself sugar.
Especially through this hellish ride.
When i first came here in March of 06 I posted under Lisset then, all I looked for were stories of marriages that were reunited.
I never even thought to give the other stories a thought.
I have now learned that people that have not "saved" their marriages but have saved themselves are a huge success.
The X left Feb of 06 and we were divorced Jan of 08
Was there back and forths in between yes.
I remember one day he said I need to see you and see the truth in your eyes. He was already well involved with his GF and I went to see him.
I wanted to say to him so badly I love you but I am not in love with you anymore.
Everyone has their own breaking points for whatever reason, or everyone has their own way of standing.
Neither of them are wrong in my opinion. The man I married became and still is someone I don't know. He hurt my children emotionally, that is all I needed to know I was done.
I also had planned on having a different life without him, and I was looking forward to that different life.
Focus on today. Focus on you. Focus on getting yourself back.
If your spouse comes back what a wonderful addition to your already wonderful life.
Lissett
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
