where I have a job (a good one!) and a roof over my head. She told me that I'm doing a favor to that b!tch by pushing H away and I need to come back home and fight for my family."

OMG Stella, I hear myself in you. I too took a job away from home and that was my downfall, I'm sure my H has an OW but won't admit to it. He didn't want me to leave in the first place. My fault. Now I'm fighting for my marraige and applied for a job closer to home where he says, "you won't have a home here in another month, because he's filing for D.

So, GO HOME WHILE YOU STILL CAN!
S my thread: Advice from my DB coach