Oh, sweetie! I am so sorry! But, I have to agree with your friends. Remember this--you are trying to restore your marriage from a continent away! That in and of itself offers so many challenges that a lot of us do not face.
You already KNEW the spiderwoman was going to do ANYTHING to hang onto your husband for herself. This is not a surprise. I know it should not be unrealistic to expect him to do the right thing, but he does not have the strength to do it on his own right now. I know you feel like you are doing all the work--because you ARE! This is something Michelle warns us about when we decide to fight for our marriages. Until you are right there with him, I do not feel this is going to get any easier. However, I do believe it is VERY probable that you will succeed when you get home.
The ball is in your court, either way. 48 hour rule goes into effect NOW! Tell H that when he calls that you need time to think about what you want t odo going forward from here.
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
Hang in there and I want you to do something for you today--hot bath, manicure, something to restore your faith and love in YOU!
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
