HELP - Wife Is Focused On Divorce For OM

[Scott123]

There is nothing in writing to indicate that I am seeing anyone.
I am well aware of the game and the legal aspects and I am
very careful to what gets posted.

In fact, if anyone has any proof of anything it would be me.
I have copies of her emails that mention the OM and I have
all the text messages about her admitting to seeing someone,
admitting to wanting to see other people, admitting to wanting
to see other people before the divorce is even final including
wanting to have sex with other people. I have copies
of all of it.

She has nothing at all on me because there isn't anything on
me to begin with. I've not cheated on her ever.

As far as what is online, there is more info about what
I'm doing, having fun, hanging out with old and new friends,
planing vacations etc. Some of it is just bar talk type stuff
about sports, but there are a few girls who are
posting too. Nothing sexual towards me, but they are
just really positive and friendly.

I know my wife, I know how jealous she can be. As far as the
other stuff about being dark I am doing that. The problem is
I don't see her at all so the only way she follows me or
sees me is online.

Just today I looked at the logs and she was on my stuff a bunch
of times this morning. Every hour or so.

Put it this way. If I was not doing the above mentioned things
she would simply be concentrating on moving on with this new
guy. At least now she is actively watching me and seems to be
picking up on everything especially if she is talking about
it to other people including my daughters and this older
couple.

This is exactly the type of stuff she did in the past and
it actually was a big step in getting us back together, which
is why I wanted to do it again.

Right now though I'm more concerned about the OM and how he
is affecting her actions especially since she in such a fog
and not thinking straight to begin with. She is really
vulnerable now emotionally so she is probably pretty easy to
get hooked.

- Scott