Hi Sue, Just have a minute to respond, so I have to be brief.

If you do respond to him at all, don't get into details and dates and who did what. Really, he's not even slightly interested in the truth, he's interested in dragging you into an argument and "proving" to himself that you are to blame and he is the poor little victim. The best way to avoid that game is to refuse to play it with him.

And his threat to talk to your D is all about him trying to pressure you into a response. Even someone as deluded as he is must understand - your D knows perfectly well that YOU are her guardian angel and DADDY is the one who is angry, mean, and unhappy. No lies from him could possibly change that.


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