As far as the sex goes and three years... that's silly.

Basically, sex can be accomplished in a mechanical manner. It doesn't have to be rockets and fireworks. Just do it. In time, and with practice the feelings can change.

Anyone can be a prostitute. Consider you and your husband actors in the role of prostitue for each other. In the beginning it will be a "job" but just DO IT!!!


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.