I think so too and hope so!!! And hopefully before I'm old and gray (although I'm starting to already, well I'm starting to get some of the gray part!!! Karen
My H just keeps saying that this situation has nothing to do with OW. Well in my humble opinion 3's a crowd in a marriage and it has a huge bearing on what is going on now.
This has been my "favorite quote" in the alternate universe since day 1. Just boggles the mind how distorted their reality is.
Originally Posted By: kat727
We are all going to meet in person some day. I just know it. Hopefully we won't have to wait until I move to Ireland to start a B&B years from now!
Maybe sooner than you think. Have an incredible day!
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
Mine doesn't have a clue either. So sad to watch that. As my oldest son says he will be a lonely old man. His father was. Still I can't be concerned with what ifs or should have moments.
Our life is here and now moments is what makes it memorable. My H is not going to ruin that for me.
Peaches
Me 48 H 54 Together 30 yrs M 29 yrs S 24 s 17 EA 10-2007 Denies it every happened
Peaches, wanted to say something to you. I sit with my friend (who is going through this as well, her stbx is marrying OW in about a month), and we both say we don't want to be that angry x-wife always bad-mouthing H, etc. I pray for the strength for all of us to be stronger and wiser and get past the anger properly to move on.
LWB, I pray for that and strength for my family every day. My son even laughs how I talk to myself. I told him I am saying my prayer quietly.
Peaches
Me 48 H 54 Together 30 yrs M 29 yrs S 24 s 17 EA 10-2007 Denies it every happened
Well my L just came by and dropped off all the papers. I need to try to look them over today and try to get questions answered and sign everything today, since my L is going out of town for a week.
This just sucks.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
So much better to get this over with now and not drag out all week. I know that. I don't like it but I know it. So this is like a funeral for the husband I married. He is gone. May my sweet Bryan, Rest in Peace.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Karen