Yes, I think you're spot on. As I said, he puts this all on my shoulders and makes me come across as this cold b*tch that's incapable of showing love and affection. I was thinking on the way to work today (even before the email) of how tired I am of him pushing me away & then trying to pull me back close. I feel like I'm on the end of some bunge cord that he's dangling.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day