As you have probably read on many threads, when they enter into MLC, their beliefs, way of life, everything totally changes. Many times they are the opposite of what they once were.

As for your prayers--you have to be consistent and patient. God does not reveal all to us when we would like Him to. Remember, everything is in His timing, not ours.

If you keep praying and feel that you do not see results, then you must continue to have faith and keep praying.

God does listen to prayer and He does work but we don't always see it.

Be patient, forgiving, love unconditionally and from afar, and be still. Another major thing is to zip the lips. You might feel like questioning your husband and talking about what he is doing as wrong but don't do it as it will only push him further away from you and more toward ow.

This is a very long road and you will have ups and downs.

Do a lot of reading here on these forums as it will help you.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19