I still have thoughts of the OM and what I may have lost there. YEs, part fantasy, but part reality. There were things about him that H will never be able to do because it is a diff personality type. I do think that if I hadn't been married yet and I was out dating men, including OM and H, H would not win out. Funny thing is, H said last night that if I put him on equal ground as the OM, with no baggage of the past, he'd have more of a chance. Hmmmmm.......not sure.
whatdidido,
I am not trying to be judgmental. I would like to ask a few "food for thought" questions.
Is it right for a married person to be "looking around" for something "better?"
Are you okay with the person in you are in a R/M with always "looking around" for something "better?"
At some point, does one need to work on their R/M, stop "looking around" for something "better" and take responsibility for his/her own happiness?
Take Care,
NMD
Last edited by No_More_Dodo; 07/14/0803:43 PM.
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