Sue,

Hi sweetie! \:\) This is EXACTLY what everyone has expected him to do! Doesn't make it any easier on you, and might be producing that guilt feeling we've talked about, but... think about it. You KNOW this isn't your fault. You KNOW you gave him a chance to work this out with you. If you don't remember that, please go back over your journalling here and find the convos where you tried to talk to him.. specifically the ones where you told him that you want to save the marriage and wanted to work on it with him.

If you must respond.. give him the date and what you said - what the convo was. His memory is failing him. Isn't that convenient?

We know that him blaming you is a bunch of crap... let's get to how he's been acting for the last year. Would you really want a drunk that screws around, lies, talks nasty to you and your daughter to touch you? blech.. I mean, the health risks aside.. what's in it for you? You'll still have a man who's screwing around, says he doesn't love you, drinks all the time and doesn't treat his daughter right.

He just ticks me off to no end!! He's doing exactly what we said he'd do, but still.. doesn't he know losing weight doesn't make a bit of a diff if he can't be your best friend and husband first?

Hang tough. Honestly, I would act like I didn't even get that email if I was you. He's trying to drag you into a game to make himself feel better, or open the door to say "if Sue would admit she's wrong (and now that I realize I'm screwing up) - maybe I'll give her another chance" I'm a cynic but I think he really wants to move with you because he doesn't have a clue what he's doing. Time for him to start grasping at straws!

HUGGGGGGs.. all your friends are here for you!

Sheila