simply put, wife wasn't happy, didn't have anyone else lined up so she stayed, ex came back, slept over when i moved out, wife wants divorce, mediation tomorrow.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
good to see you again finally PDT ! i just got DR at the bookstore today. mediation is tomorrow when she says "it's over". we got new cell phones and i found messages between W and OM from this past week saying "i love you." "i love you more." "prove it" crap i don't need. how you been ?
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
Yeah, my wife had all those same kinds of messages, even as late as FOUR DAYS BEFORE she begged me to take her back, full of genuine remorse. They mean nothing -- it's high school stuff.
DB for YOU... not your W or your marriage. I believe it's the best you can do to give your marriage a chance of reconciliation.... and you won't regret it.
But there is also a lot of good advice in it that will help you heal and move on.... like get a life (GAL), work towards becoming the best person you can be. These will be great things to help you grow as a person and have better relationships in the future.
Give your W a lot of leash and move on in your life. There's a hoaky old saying that actually has a lot of wisdom in it. If you love something let it go, if it's meant to come back it will.
Unfortunately, your W is really young... and you are young too. Take care...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
