Yes, It is good to remember that, had this not happened, we would not have made much needed changes or gained insight into what a good relationship looks like.
A big part of that is being comfortable with letting sit for a while before doing anything about it. Something that seems hard to do in the beginning, easier after you've learned the benefits, & then difficult again when you run low on patience with the slow process.
What sort of last resort technique were you thinking of, since it looks like W's pretty comfortable with coming & going when she feels the urge?
