Looking for support from other WAS's

[alexjadams]

1) I'm scared that we will get stuck in our old rut once I return home;

If you do everything on your side to not get in the rut, when he finds it you will pull him out of it (which is why the 180's can't stop)

2) I worry about the lack of old feelings (passion, etc.) on my part (will it get better or won't it?)

If you focus just on the bad things you will only see the bad things focus on the positive & remind yourself why you married him

3) Will I miss my new routine, new friends, and new "way of life" once I go back home?

You can't have both they need to become one & if any of the new don't like the old you have no choice but to remove them from your life right now it's about your marriage, that's if that's what you want if you make the marriage the most important thing than it all will work out because it has higher precedence but if you don't then you will be back at this situation



The reasons we are all here is simple... complacency, then being taking for granted, next is frustration for being taking for granted, then pride/ego which leads to anger, then we start to keep score (they didn't do this so I'm not doing that) which ultimately brings us here as a WAS or a LBS