I'll answer that for you, redhottie. I have heard of people going to Retrouvaille after being separated, and even divorced. So, it is never too late. I will be going with my H this weekend.

Sara, about the onions.....when you cook, you cook it your way. When your H cooks, let him cook it his way. Eventually, the kids may say something about it. With your sense of humor, I'm sure you'll be able to get him to see, in a non-threatening way, that the way you cook onions is really the best way. \:\) Ha!