What Puppy said. DO NOT LET YOUR WW SPIN THIS TO THE KIDS BEFORE YOU TELL THEM THE TRUTH. THEY NEED TO HEAR THE TRUTH FROM YOU FIRST!

Let me repeat. DO NOT LET YOUR WW SPIN THIS TO THE KIDS BEFORE YOU TELL THEM THE TRUTH. THEY NEED TO HEAR THE TRUTH FROM YOU FIRST!

If she's so intent on destroying the marriage/family, the truth NEEDS to be out there.

That's just my opinion and I know there are people who disagree, but like Pup said, in an age appropriate manner, they need to be told. I would never let my kids think that I was giving up on them. If they don't know the truth they will think that they've been abandoned by BOTH their parents.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.